Children And Constipation Problems Often Begin
With Potty Training
One topic that most people refuse to talk about, both adult and children,
is constipation. Millions of people have problems with constipation each
and every year but few of them do more than take a few laxatives to alleviate
the symptoms. While this approach may not have many serious consequences
because constipation problems often go away within a few days without major
incident, the condition can lead to a host of medical problems including
septicemia and even death.
Where children and constipation are concerned,
the origins of their shyness (and in many cases, our own issues with
discussing constipation problems) often begins with potty training.
Sometimes the signs of constipation are obvious, sometimes they
are not. Where your children and constipation are concerned, here
are some signs to be aware of:
1. Difficulty or pain when trying
to pass stool
2. Skipping or withholding bowel movements to avoid
pain
3. Four or more days without a bowel movement
4.
Sudden loss of appetite
5. Poor performance in school
Constipation problems
such as missing bowel movements must be taken very seriously
because in times when stool cannot be eliminated by a bowel movement,
the bacteria and toxins ultimately enter the blood stream. When
there is a blockage in your system or any problems with the evacuation
of stool in a timely manner, there is the potential for larger
problems than simple constipation to develop.
During potty training,
problems with children and constipation suddenly become an issue
because there is now social pressure on what used to be an unregulated
body function. If parents are not careful, the use of negative
reinforcement can psychologically damage the ego of a child and
children then associate bowel movements with shame or guilt.
Because they are confused, children will withhold the evacuation
of stool and then potentially cause constipation problems.
When
constipation does develop during potty training, a very negative
cycle may then begin that can take days, if not weeks, to correct.
Children with constipation will experience pain during evacuation
because failing to evacuate feces will cause it to dry and harden.
There may even be the presence of blood on the toilet paper or
in the stool, further causing alarm and grief in the child. Due
to the pain, the shame associated with the blood, or a combination
of the two, the child will have the constipation continue because
they will then withhold bowel movements.
Once a cycle has initiated,
the best choice may be to use an all natural bowel cleanser to
completely cleanse the bowels. An all natural bowel cleanser
should not cause any harmful side effects and it will clear away
any compacted waste and blockages that may be causing the constipation
problems. Then, by encouraging a diet rich in fiber and plenty
of exercise, and good conversation with the child that pooping
is a good thing, constipation problems should hopefully disappear.